Ready to make a big change for yourself and your family? Welcome to The Housewife Revolution!  If you've arrived here you've probably already read some of my Facebook posts or you've seen me in the press. You've probably recognised yourself in my story, so you already know that you and I have A LOT in common. 

For some women, being a traditional housewife is just dreamy. Endless days of domestic bliss. For women like us, it just isn't fun. Endless days of domestic drudgery that leave you staring out of the window wondering where your pre-housewife life went. You know you are capable of so much more. You know that not every housewife belongs in the home. 

You want to kick off your flats and step back into your big girl shoes. Build a successful business and start making a serious contribution to your family's finances. 

If you are ready to break the mould of the traditional housewife, you've come to the right place. Shall we get started?

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Hi, I'm Vanessa Matthews. Founder of The Housewife Revolution. NLP Trained Mindset, Business & Life Coach. Public Speaker. Author. 

Want to know more about me? Watch my intro video below then scroll down to find out why I am the woman to help you make a change.

But wait!

You're scared. You don't know if you can do it. 

Maybe you have a small kitchen table enterprise you want to supercharge, but kicking things up a gear feels risky. What if it doesn't work? Oh, but what if it does? Can you afford NOT to give it your all?

Maybe your business already ticks over comfortably, but you're a high achiever with high aspirations. You need an accountability partner to help you translate your vision into a big money business. Then, trust me we are soul sisters and we need to connect. I'll be the catalyst to help you power up your game and become a major player. 

Maybe you have tried to start a business before but you failed and you just don't know if you can put yourself out there again. Well, keep thinking like that and you will fail again. Keep doing what you've always done and you'll keep getting what you always got. Guaranteed.

So, are you really ready to do things differently? To become the go-getter you can be and start grabbing those rewards? No excuses. 100% accountability. 100% action.

What are you waiting for? Let's get to work. Read on to find out more about coaching solutions and to book a call. 

This stuff is only for the housewives who are serious about kicking over the mop bucket once and for all, and striding out into the world.

What if you're not in business?

Not all of the women I work with have a business, but they do share an overwhelming desire to do more, be more, have more. To live the best life they can. 

If they're moms, they've probably put the baby and toddler years behind them by now. Their kids are at school.

They've got an empty house during the day for the first time in years and finally there's no baby on their hip, no spit on their sweater and no buggy or stroller to push. 

But they look in the mirror and around the empty house and they see signs of neglect. That's the woman I'm talking to. 

If you don't have a business, my coaching could still change your life, if...

  • You've neglected yourself, your marriage, your career and your aspirations and you've had enough of living that way.
  • You're ready to get your sexy, fulfilled and powerful self back!
  • You've struggled to find the confidence, energy and drive to live the life you know you deserve.
  • You're creative, intelligent, talented but you have no outlet for your gifts - in fact you probably don't even see them as gifts.
  • You're ambitious and passionate but have forgotten how to make it all work.
  • You've got a spark but don't know how to fuel the fire.

Part of my mission is to redefine the term housewife. 

To take the perception of housewives as tired and down trodden or vanilla Stepford wives and show you and everyone else that you can be sexy, successful, vibrant, creative, unique, interesting - whoever you want to be.

Because it's sexy to have passion, purpose, fulfilment, success, power, money, motivation and inspiration right?

I certainly feel in alignment when all of those things come together for me.

Sound like fun?

Want to rediscover the woman you used to be?

Then you and I need to talk. Urgently. Before you fall so far down that black hole you might never be able to get out.

Click on the button below to book a free introductory call and let's go get your sexy back.


'Before I joined Vanessa’s coaching program I had a business idea but was confused about how to actually make it happen. I was unclear about my message, my ideal client. I did not have the confidence that I could do it.

One of my biggest fears was not achieving the results promised by the program in the time frame. I was totally wrong.

I got a major breakthrough because of her coaching. I discovered my true message, what I'm really passionate about. I was able to see the patterns that keep me stuck. I have a better understanding of who I am and what I want to bring to the world.

Vanessa has an honest, no BS approach and would call me out when I was hiding and resisting doing the work. But she’s also a big cheerleader.

Since working with her I've become more aware of when I'm trying to play small. I can see it coming. Now I'm more confident in my ability to run my business. I now know I have a deep calling and I’m ready to share it.

Vanessa mirrors to you the gifts you can't see. She believes in you when you don't believe in yourself. She's practical and gives you actionable steps to get the results you want.

Vanessa is the real deal. And, she still keeps checking on me even after our coaching relationship has ended.'



Mindset, Business & Life Coach. Author. Public Speaker. Wife. Mom of Four.

Before I became a housewife, I enjoyed a successful 20 year career in PR and marketing and I had a lot of fun. I got to rub shoulders with world famous boy bands and TV stars, spent time lobbying government ministers and even organised a photo call for a Prime Minister's wife.

I've helped to reinvent retro food and drink brands, rename and rebrand national institutions and refresh the perception of everything from bubble packaging to personal finance.

I gave interviews on live radio and TV, worked backstage on one of the UK's biggest, boldest and most fashionable breakfast television shows. I've been the CEO's first call at times of corporate crisis and high-tailed my way to the scene to fend off international media attention.

I've worked with some of the UK's most highly respected companies and counted global retail businesses among my clients.

But, I've also supported small business owner, start ups and kitchen table entrepreneurs. An artisan food producer, innovative dog lead maker and a ladypreneur with a rural kick starter campaign.

I've been employed as a boss at corporate firms and high level agencies and for 7 years I was my own boss. I'm also a trained relationship counsellor, NLP coach and have worked to support couples and individuals through change and development.

So, how the hell did I end up picking up dirty socks, making do and mending and hiding away indoors feeling lonely and frustrated? 

Something had to change. ME! These days I work with aspirational wives, moms and women from across the world who are ready to make big changes for themselves and their families.

Here's just a few of my recent personal and professional highlights;

  • My debut novel was released in June 2015 and was among the top-selling titles published with CompletelyNovel within the first six weeks of release.
  • I've managed to get my novel read by the editor of Vogue (UK) and have received messages of support from best selling authors and high profile business woman Jacqueline Gold, CEO of Gold Group International.
  • I have contributed to articles for Glamour Magazine, Experience Life Magazine, Vintage Life Magazine and Brit Mums. I've been featured in , Woman's Own, Prima, Western Morning News and Cornwall Today Magazine. 
  • I have established myself as a public speaker.
  • Since I started the revolution in 2016 I have already coached and connected with more than 460 women from across the world. 
  • And I'm helping them shape their own successful futures right now. I have developed and launched this coaching business for you so that you can join the revolution and do it too. 

I know I'm ready to help you rediscover your purpose, realise your potential and revolutionise your life! Are you?

Now, go and dust off your big girl shoes, it's time to make a change. Click the button below to book your FREE coaching call with me now. You deserve this. It's your time now. 

During the call we will chat and connect, you can experience the power of coaching for yourself and then if it feels like a good fit, we can start working together. 


'Before working with Vanessa, I was a housewife hiding behind a sewing machine with no self-esteem, focus or idea were to go next with a business that was going nowhere fast.  At first, I was a little scared about spending money on myself, as it wasn`t something I did very often. Being a mum tends to make you think that your investments should be on your children. Now that my coaching sessions are completed and I am so glad I made the decision to spend the money to invest in me for a change.

I used to hide behind my husband and kids. Now I have so much confidence and focus, but I’ve gained even more than that. I have learned that I can be my own person, that there is more to life than sitting in the house waiting on kids coming home for tea. That although the family need you, they also need to fend for themselves as well. And, that moving forward from being a housewife to a mother/wife with a passion is allowed.  I have a life and I have a business. I now have routine and I am more organised. My family now realise that I am not playing a game, that my business matters to me. I now have their support instead of negative questions or suggestions.

When I started working with Vanessa I was a shell of myself. You could say I was at breaking point, had realised I wasn’t getting anywhere fast and had no chance of success. Vanessa made me feel at ease, but made me aware it wasn’t going to be an easy ride. However, taking the step to invest in myself was my starting point, and I was now on the road to success. Vanessa is an amazing person, a strong and successful coach who never fails to make you smile and feel good about yourself. And, to move forward with your goals it’s imperative to feel good. Plus! She’s just awesome...!

I would work with her again without hesitation. A MASSIVE, HUGE thank you Vanessa! You actually have no idea what you have done for me and for my family’s future. I owe you more than you could imagine. You are highly recommended by me, and I can’t believe that 12 weeks flew by so very quickly.'


"Vanessa is AMAZING. I just had time with her and I had a serious insight - one that I have been wanting for years. This woman is BIG NEWS, she is on fire." 

Sara Bobkoff, Voice & Message Mentor and Success Story Coaching, Amsterdam. 

"Working with Vanessa helps me loads -as well as fab practical business advice, she's inspirational and keeps me motivated and focused."

 Jen Ives, Owner of Grippy Leads, United Kingdom.

"Being coached by Vanessa was truly awesome, worth every penny. She is one of the most inspirational people I know."

Lorraine Sharpe, Entrepreneur, United Kingdom.

3 Month, 6 Month and 12 Month Coaching Programs. 

For too long you’ve been busy taking care of everything for everyone. If you’ve started a business, you’re ready to reflect, reassess then clear the decks and move it up a notch. If you’ve just decided that it’s time you took your life back and lifted yourself out of the domestic doldrums, take stock of what skills you have, and rediscover your business brain or creative side then this is for you.

My powerful coaching program will help you do just that. It’s a bespoke solution that takes an up close and personal look at just what you’ve been doing with all of that talent, what has been holding you back and how you can move forward – FAST. Of course we will cover all of the practicalities of solving business problems and creating user-friendly business strategies that will deliver measurable success, but we will also work on a much deeper level to get to the bottom of the mindset, business and life issues that have been keeping you stuck so far.

A life changing choice for the women who are truly ready to fulfil their purpose and create long term sustainable success for themselves and their families.


My 100% UNIQUE WIFE-LIFE ANALYSIS - You won’t get this anywhere else. Before our first full coaching session I will ask you to complete a Q&A featuring carefully constructed questions about every aspect of your life. We’re going to lift the carpet, shine a flash light under there and clear out all the debris that has been cluttering up your vision.

WEEKLY 1:1 COACHING SESSIONS - conducted by Skype, Zoom or Facebook video call. Each session lasts one hour and provides time for us to explore key areas in your personal and professional life. I will work with you to identify barriers to success and unlock your true potential.   

UNLIMITED EMAIL ACCESS – got a question that can’t wait until our next session? Stumbled on a problem you hadn’t anticipated? That’s okay, just drop me an email and I’ll give you my best solution.


First, we're going to work on your mindset. I've recently supercharged my coaching work with some NLP training (neuro linguistic programming). It's a powerful combination that will help you banish those limiting beliefs, undo old habits and create new pathways for successful thinking. In essence, we are going to rewire your brain! It's okay, it doesn't hurt a bit. In fact you won't feel a thing - except a new found confidence, unlimited joy and the knowledge that anything you want is possible.  

I have a reputation for getting straight to the heart of your problem, creating 'wow' moments that lead to personal and professional transformation that lasts long after our work together is done. Freedom from whatever is holding you back. 

Because every revolutionary woman I coach is different. Every coaching experience is too. Anyone who tells you there is a one-size-fits-all solution is spinning you a line. What you want and how quickly you get it, is driven by you. Ultimately, you decide how effective our time together is. Show up and give it your all every time (and in the days between our sessions) and YOU WILL feel liberated and see  tangible success.  

Want to start making a serious financial contribution for your family? Want to fly ahead of the competition? Want to push past your doubts and fears, let go of old habits? Then you’ve come to the right place. Together, we’ve got it covered.


More money for you and your family to enjoy the life you deserve

Increased confidence and a shift in mindset

Clarity for yourself and your business

Practical strategies to help you avoid overwhelm and remove limiting beliefs

Top tips for running a business in a way that works with (rather than against) your role as a housewife (and mother if you have children)

Laser sharp focus on your brand and voice including an online and offline content 

A better understanding of your customers and where to find them

Guides to getting your product or service featured in the media, and tips on promoting yourself online.

Complete mindset mastery that allows you to move past all of the blocks, habits, limiting beliefs and past stories that are standing in your way.

Package prices from $5,000 (£3,450).